How to be independent (Part 3)

I wake up, turn on the music, and then begin my next task for the day. Now just read that sentence again. Yes, that’s right, I’m a music addict. I completely “depend” on it.

Always remember, you can depend on a few things and you cannot depend on others. You cannot depend on people all the time because everyone has their own priorities and are busy living their lives.

In a short span of three years or three months people change like the metamorphosis of the butterfly, not to mention you were just the leaf or the nutrition for the worm to phase into a butterfly.

Let gravity alone hold you onto the surface of earth, not the presence of another individual you know? Never spiral back to what used to be. Live and stay in the present.

When you know your friend isn’t respecting you, listening to you, never cared for you in the first place, it’s a green signal for you to move on. The only solution is, learning to be independent. The most important thing is not getting attached to the person. Like the powerhouse of the cell which is the Mitochondrion, it doesn’t need another element as a backup support system.

It’s okay to be dependent on people but always remember to choose the right ones. The right ones will never let you down. If you feel the carpet is slipping off your feet, throw it away, it’s time to get a new one!! 🙂
Take some time off social media, detox, read inspiring stories or quotes, workout and come back as a strong individual. Set a goal, aim to achieve it. Listen to your instincts, listen to your heart, but let the brain take the final call. This way you take decisions on your own.

Ask opinions to people whom you can count on. Indulge yourself into a hobby or an activity which distracts you completely, and helps you find your inbuilt talents and help you grow into a better person.

Cribbing about something which can’t be undone is a really bad sign. Don’t do it. If you think you are responsible for any action which ended up badly then accept the same. Apologize once and mean it. Don’t overdo it. The apology will lose its value.

I quote: Two roads diverged in the wood and I, I take the one less traveled by and that made all the difference.
Always remember, you are awesome and you deserve the best of everything.